Gay date ideas

Visit an animal sanctuary 

You’re bound to fall in love with someone here. 

First date ideas for all queer people

This third list may seem arbitrary, and it is. You can select books or poems from LGBTQIA+ authors to read and discuss, interweaving your thoughts with fun, themed games that celebrate queer culture such as: "Queer Trivia" focusing on LGBTQIA+ history and culture, "Pride Bingo" with squares related to queer icons and landmarks, or "Story Dice" with rainbow-colored dice for storytelling prompts related to LGBTQIA+ themes.

Save the ex-talk for far later (if at all).

Turning the Date into a Checklist

Sure, asking questions helps you get to know one another. A concert

Like the movie, but more social, concerts are opportunities to curate a certain vibe for your date.

24. He showed up drunk and talked about his ex nonstop.

Pool

If you do want to drink, pool (aka billiards), is a great activity to pair with it. It’s an ideal blend of casual competition and laid-back fun, suitable for those who are just getting to know each other or couples looking to switch up their routine date nights. All are valuable — because they teach you more about what you truly want and need.

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An escape room 

Get out of the closet! Each artwork, whether it's a painting, sculpture, or installation, tells a unique story, often reflecting personal journeys, struggles, and triumphs within the LGBTQIA+ community.

“After the first date I hear a lot of people second guess what they said and how they came off,” she shared.

It was a mess — but a good reminder to trust my gut.”

Jules, 40:
“I was super anxious we wouldn’t click, but we laughed nonstop over dinner. AND this article considers how subcultures within the queer community may impact connection, and what kinds of activities could help facilitate that connection.

Remember that first dates can be daunting no matter who you are, and similar questions are likely to arise: What activities are good for a first date?

It's a great setting for a first date or as a fun date activity for couples who've been together for a while.

It's a beautiful blend of leisure and learning, perfect for those who appreciate the power of words and the beauty of nature.

Date Idea 8: Doing A Mini-Golf Adventure Date

A mini-golf outing is a playful date idea that adds a touch of whimsy and competition. There’s more than one social lubricant available.

Signs Your First Date Is Going Really Well

You don’t need to overanalyze — but if you’re wondering how things are going, look for these signs:

• Genuine laughter and smiling
• Easy, flowing back-and-forth conversation
• You lose track of time because you’re so engaged
• Lingering eye contact or playful touching
• Neither of you seems eager for the date to end

If you’re feeling a connection, it’s okay to say so.

These activities aren't just tasks; they're moments where you can laugh, chat, and see each other's compassionate side in action. For anniversaries, consider revisiting the spot of your first hike together or exploring a new trail that’s been on your bucket list. And don't forget, even if the soufflé falls or the pasta sticks, it's all about the fun and memories you're making.

Rollerskating or ice skating

Skating is an opportunity to be both tender and competitive.

Board game or puzzle night

Challenge each other to a board game or collaborate on a complex puzzle.